Hey! I’m the face behind Queen of Romance, and I’m so glad you’re here! Born and raised in the Netherlands, I’ve been fortunate to live and work in the world’s fashion capitals like Milan, Paris, London, Hong Kong, and New York. These vibrant cities inspire my work, blending documentary wedding photography with a chic, editorial flair.
With over 10 years of experience, I've had the privilege of collaborating closely with some of the world’s leading fashion photographers and editorial teams. This journey has refined my visual sensibility and deepened the emotional quality of my work.
I understand that being in front of a camera can feel a little uncomfortable and might be one of your biggest worries. But don't worry, I promise, I’ve got you! My specialty is making you feel super at ease, so you can truly enjoy every moment of your big day like you’re just hanging out with a friend (one with cameras, of course!).
Having photographed weddings around the globe, my work has been featured in magazines like Vogue and Harper’s Bazaar.
If you're seeking a photographer who genuinely cares about capturing your love story in a way that feels natural and beautiful, I'd be honored to be part of it.
Let's create something magic together!
I'M CHARIS
"Charis's talent and dedication are truly remarkable''
"When we began looking for a photographer for our Sicilian wedding we wanted someone who could truly capture the essence of the day – the intimate moments and the overall joy. Well, Charis and her team not only met but exceeded our expectations. She delivered these stunning editorial-style photos that perfectly encapsulated the spirit of our special day.
From our very first meeting Charis explained her creative process and what to expect not he day. Coordinating all the details with her was a breeze, and it gave us confidence that our memories were in capable hands.
Charis's talent and dedication are truly remarkable. We believe that investing in her skills is absolutely worthwhile. Without a doubt, we would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone in need of a highly skilled and professional photographer. A huge thank you to Charis for immortalizing our wedding day so beautifully!"
from london
Emma & dom
"we immediately were taken
with her warm, laidback energy''
Charis (Marry and Me) was the only wedding photographer we interviewed, after we saw her incredible work. She has a very natural, almost docu-style way of capturing people, where everyone looks gorgeous, happy – and like themselves. She has a way of making the day look like both a gorgeous editorial spread and the most fun party you’ve ever been to. When we first met her (over Zoom!), we immediately were taken with her warm, laidback energy. We knew it would be a blast to have her there on our special weekend, because honestly we wanted to hang out with her!
Unsurprisingly, it was an absolute joy to have her there the whole weekend. From her calming energy to her sense of play, whether capturing fun moments with friends or doing a photoshoot in the streets of Noto on a vespa taxi, Charis was a dream.
from los angelos
EVAN & JOEY
"IT TRULY FELT LIKE A FRIEND WAS
HELPING US THE WHOLE TIME''
I spent over six months looking for a photographer, having spoken to dozens of photographers, and when I finally met Charis, I knew she was the person I had been searching for all along. She is incredibly talented. She has the ability to capture all the little moments that mean so much on someone’s wedding day and create a story that you relive every time you look through the pictures again.
To be able to capture a single day from start to finish is quite difficult—but Charis and her team did that for four days in a row, as I am Pakistani-Indian American and my husband is Swiss-Chinese. She ensured that all of the rich cultural traditions we shared with our guests were beautifully documented, and she made us feel at ease the entire time.
Charis is now a friend, and when I look back, I’m so glad she was our photographer—because it truly felt like a friend was helping us the whole time. I hope that when we celebrate our 10-year anniversary, she will remember us and help us again.
from london
ZEENA & YICHEN
she didn’t just take photographs.. she bottled magic.
Some things in life feel destined and inviting Charis, along with her wonderful second shooter, to capture our wedding was truly one of them. In a little village tucked away in the North of Italy, over three unforgettable days, she didn’t just take photographs.. she bottled magic.
I cannot imagine recommending a photographer more wholeheartedly. Her editorial style is breathtaking, timeless, and filled with soul. Yet beyond her immense talent lies a warmth and presence that made our experience all the more special. Before the wedding, she was attentive, thoughtful, and so professional and always ready to help and understand our vision. And throughout the celebration, she embodied everything we dreamed of: joyful yet calm, discreet yet ever-present, efficient and deeply attuned to every fleeting moment. The setting was grand, the schedule full, the emotions endless and still, she made everything feel effortless.
Just when we thought we could not be more grateful, the photographs arrived… and left us speechless. We have never felt more beautiful or more ourselves. She captured not just scenes, but atmosphere, emotion, and the soul of the weekend. Our guests cherish their pictures, each one worthy of a frame and a smile.
from london
alexandre & Evin
Charis has a gift for capturing the soul of a moment
We honestly cannot recommend Charis enough! She was, simply put, amazing! From the moment we booked her, Charis was the definition of professional, available, and flexible. She made the planning process seamless, and on our wedding weekend, she was fully engaged and present in every single moment, yet somehow managed to be completely unobtrusive.
Charis has a gift for capturing the soul of a moment. She didn't just take pictures; she captured the small, beautiful details and the raw, authentic emotions of the day so incredibly well. Her experience truly shone through in the way she balanced all the different elements we wanted. We have stunning standard shots, magazine-worthy editorial portraits, and the most amazing collection of fun, lively moments that we didn't even realize were happening until we saw the photos, she was anticipating and capturing joy everywhere. She also brought creativity to each shot, working with us to bring our vision to life!
Beyond her incredible skill as a photographer, Charis went above and beyond to make us feel comfortable and completely at ease throughout the entire process. She was a calming, positive presence, and we couldn't be happier with every single image she has provided from our special weekend!
